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Question: Why is it hard for a Christian to have a relationship with a non-Christian?
Answer: Difficulties between Christians and non-Christians arise fundamentally over different value systems. In 2 Corinthians 6:14, the apostle Paul wrote, "Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?"
Here, the concept of being "unequally yoked" is a reference to the biblical prohibition against harnessing an ox and a donkey together because they would not make a good team (Deuteronomy 22:10). By citing this concept, Paul was teaching the Corinthians not to get involved with idolatry. Pagan worship and Christianity cannot be yoked together. As Paul asks, "...what part has a believer with an unbeliever?" (verse 15).
When we consider marrying someone, we need to apply the same principle by asking, will my future mate and I make a good team? Prior to marriage is the time to consider whether we are compatible with a potential mate. Compatible religious belief is one area that has the potential to provide great satisfaction or great havoc, if there is controversy.
Of course, we should understand that we are going to have much contact with non-believers as we live our lives and we are supposed to be lights to these people (Matthew 5:14). The principle of being properly teamed up with someone, however, is particularly relevant to close personal relationships, such as business deals and marriage.
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