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Don't
let him break my heart," the young woman prayed to God. She is like countless
young women and men who have wanted the guys or girls of their dreams. After
all, the passion for companionship, romance and, ultimately, a happy relationship
that never ends lives in virtually every young man or woman's heart. It
certainly did for me before I was married.
But
today many are so fearful and even cynical about the prospect of finding
their "one true love" that they believe that finding a lifelong mate is
a lost cause, an impossible dream, no more real than the Disney animation
of Sleeping Beauty. It may happen to some people. But it won't to them,
they are convinced.
I sure don't want my three daughters and son to think that way. The reality that there are great lifelong marriages proves that it is possible to have such a relationship.
Even young people who believe in God sometimes fear they will have a relationship that will break up instead of lasting "till death do us part." Some are so fearful at the prospect and possibility of disappointment, they never open up enough emotionally or intellectually to allow potential mates to get close enough for genuine love to develop. How unfortunate because if you know what to do and to look for, you can increase the likelihood of having a lasting marriage. Certain principles can help you understand if a particular person is "the right one." You can be secure in the process. You can be growing, outgoing and confident because you understand what you are looking for and know how to tell when you find the one for you. Here are some ways you can know when you have found "the right one."
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