Everyone knows that in most cultures dating is a prelude to
marriage. But what many don't know is that how we date greatly influences
the kind of marriage we will have. The way we conduct ourselves while dating
is an excellent indicator of the commitment we will have to a future relationship
and an indicator of the level of happiness we will enjoy.
In this chapter we're going to look at the godly way to find a husband or wife. We'll contrast the modern dating culture with godly dating practices.
We'll share with you some frank answers about the consequences of premarital sex and popular myths about sex. And finally, we'll share some advice given
by people who have committed their lives to godly dating.
God said, "It is not good that man should be alone" (Genesis 2:18) and that finding a wife is "a good thing" (Proverbs 18:22). The same
principle holds true for women who find loving and responsible husbands. Marriage
is good for us!
Marriages are not only a basis for happiness, they offer us
longer and better-quality lives. They are also the building blocks of communities,
societies and, ultimately, civilizations. A society is only as strong as its
marriages and families.
The foundation for a good
marriage is laid long before the wedding ceremony. It is established when
two people begin dating.
Dating: Preparation for marriage
As we grow up, "When can I begin dating?" is a question we
commonly ask our parents. Though the Bible gives no specific age when dating
is appropriate, wise parents will teach their maturing children sound biblical
principles that will help them follow God's standards of behavior.
